Are you ready to build

Explosive Confidence

from the outside, in?

I teach high achievers how to get out of their heads and into their bodies so they can increase their style, emotional, and social intelligence, attract the right people, and show up as their most authentically confident selves!

What is your Unique
Confidence Character?

Discover your personal confidence style so you can stop doubting yourself, capitalize on your natural strength, and create confidence that people can’t ignore! Ready to find out which confidence character type best suits you?

Hey,Hey!

I’m Kimmy Seltzer, your dating, love, and makeover expert!
I’m an ex-therapist turned dating strategist, image consultant, podcast host, author, and nationally recognized speaker.

With passion, first-hand experience, tough love, and lots and lots of resilience, I’ve found my purpose guiding high achievers to build explosive confidence and create a gateway to love, prosperity, and ultimately happiness. After over a decade impacting thousands of lives with my signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient, I’ve discovered one undeniable truth: you can love yourself… and make other people do the same!

Today, I'm a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. I’m also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen,

My

Signature

Method

THE CHARISMA QUOTIENT FORMULA

Style
Intelligence

EMOTIONAL
Intelligence

SOCIAL
Intelligence

will give you

Explosive confidence that people can’t ignore

Let’s expand your charisma quotient!
Keep reading to choose the hand-crafted program that supports you and your goals!

Transformational

DATING, STYLE, AND
PRESENCE PROGRAMS

My signature transformational dating, style, and presence programs are anything but cookie cutter…
and are designed for high achievers who are done settling for less than having it all!

Isn’t it time you stopped hiding, and started standing out powerfully and confidently?
Isn’t it time you removed the messy stress, paralyzing overwhelm, and lack of clarity when it comes to your dating life?
Isn’t it time you were seen and valued as the connected, likable, sexy person you can be?

DATING

COACHING

Learn How to Attract That Special Someone!

Available for both men and women looking for love, my intimate dating coaching experiences are designed to equip you with all the tools you need to charm your way to love, stand out, and land your dream partner.

You’ll be equipped with techniques including:

  • Conquering Fears
  • Creating A Dating Plan
  • Making A Great First Impression That Lands Dates
  • Navigating Online Dating
  • The Art of Flirting
  • Conversation Tricks Online and Offline

STYLE + PRESENCE
COACHING

Look (and Feel) Your Absolute Best After years of working with women and men of all backgrounds and beliefs, I’ve learned that the path to true confidence is accelerated when approached from the outside, in. The way you show up externally has the power to shift the way you view yourself internally, and in turn, shift the way others see you!

That’s why my highly personalized image consulting and makeover programs will expand your style intelligence so you feel your absolute best and most confident!

I’ll guide you in the areas of:

  • Learning how to shop for your body type
  • Discovering your personal style
  • Understanding what styles, shapes, fabrics, brands and colors flatters you so you can shop more efficiently on your own
  • Learning to put together outfits according to your lifestyle
  • How to use style as tool for inner confidence
  • WHY I DO
    WHAT I DO

Success StorIES

Slide Kelly

I got hitched! Found a wonderful, kind-hearted guy... He is completely different from who I thought I'd wind up with (thanks to you) and yet we are perfectly suited for each other. So funny how that works. :) Thank you again for helping me get there.

Slide Betsy

I am always passing along all your wisdom 😊. I would have never given him the chance without our sweet coaching lessons. I love my red still and try to wear it as often as possible and think of you!

Slide Katrina

Kim, you were a gift in my life and I would not be where I am had I not worked with you -- thank you from the bottom of my heart. Marriage is going strong, we are still "dating" and I'm just loving being coupled up.

Slide Libby

I’m doing so great with my guy. Eternally grateful for you! You’re the best Kim!

Slide Kavita

I wanted to thank you for the advice you gave and I decided to speak up about how I felt and what I want with my new boyfriend…and it went well!

Slide Katherine

Thank you for all you have done for me. I am doing great and happily in a great relationship!

Slide Liz

As for me and my man, we are still good. 3 years and….. We got engaged !!! Chalk me up as another testament to your ways of working.

The Charisma Quotient

Podcast

The Charisma Quotient Podcast is your listening center to Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love. Each week, Kimmy Seltzer and other experts will share their strategies to build confidence, avoid common dating pitfalls, and find lasting love with your partner AND yourself.

Kim is best known for her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach that blends fun, information, and heart to seemingly taboo subjects. Her listeners describe her as “the perfect combination of visiting a brilliant therapist and having wine with one of your closest girlfriends.”

Join the Charisma Quotient listening community and discover how to break up with bad dating habits and build love that lasts!

Fan Favorite

EPISODES

  • Why is Tom Storey Single? Building Dating Resilience
  • Top 5 Dating Fears That Prevent You from Finding Love
  • How to Stop Attracting Narcissists
  • What is Your Dating Archetype?

HIRE KIMMY   to speak

Are you looking to feature a thought leader who brings heart and strategy insight into seemingly taboo subjects like love, dating, image, and confidence?

I am best known as a Confidence Therapist, Dating Strategist + Image Expert who empowers audiences with a bold and inspiring approach to style, emotional, and social intelligence. My easy-to-connect-with presence and interactive topics capture the hearts and attention of my audiences whether in a large corporate setting, intimate workshop, online webinar, or print publication.

Are you ready for a speaker who blends years of first-hand experience, proven strategy, and genuine passion for people?

Happiness,
love, and total
confidence

are yours for the taking.
What are you waiting for?

CONFIDENCE THERAPIST
DATING STRATEGIST
IMAGE EXPERT

Let’s be Pen Pals

I’ll drop in with self-love affirmations, encouragements, and confidence-building techniques created for high-achievers, like YOU!