Fed up with conversations that never lead anywhere?

Do you find yourself lost for words with chats that fizzle out before they truly ignite?

Maybe you are friendly but not flirty in your interactions!

Discover Conversation Hacks That Convert to Dates

Every word you say draws you closer to the date you desire.

Let's unlock your Charisma Quotient together – get set for engaging, confident conversations that connect.

Does This Sound Like You?

Do you feel isolated? Picture a life where you're connecting with others with ease and comfort, feeling a genuine sense of belonging.

Introverted and the thought of small talk exhausts you? What if you learned how to create conversation without exhaustion and actually looked forward to the chit chat?

Paralyzed by the worry of others' perceptions? Envision entering any room without concern of what other people think, sparking conversations effortlessly, and truly being in the moment with those around you.

Hesitant to make the first move? Imagine confidently approaching someone and igniting a spark that could lead to something more.

Hiding or playing it too safe? See yourself commanding the room with an undeniable presence, charisma and energy.

Self-conscious or guarded? What if you felt more comfortable sharing more so that people really get to know the real you, radiating approachability and openness?

In your head a lot and overanalyzing things to death? What if you learned how to be more present in the moment and in your body.

Surrounded by couples, feeling left out? Picture drawing more singles into your life, creating a tribe that is just like you and invigorate your social calendar with engaging, intentional meet-ups (and dates).

Do you often fall into the friendzone? Imagine you having more flirty vs. friendly conversations.

Are you too serious? What if you learned to let go and have fun when talking to people to create a magnetic connection with chemistry.

You're exactly where you need to be.

Turn these (common) challenges into stepping stones into your new vibrant dating life!

unlock the art of engaging conversation

And Turn Every Chat into a Potential Date

Join our lively, co-ed workshop and unlock the top strategies for mastering the social landscape with confidence. This goes beyond datingthese are skills you can learn to enhance how you interact, showcase your uniqueness, and create meaningful connections every day.

I want to help you make socializing something to look forward to!


Mastering the Art of Conversation

Learn The Skills that Can Lead to Successful Dating.

Hello there, Future Master Socializer,

As your trusted guide in the world of dating and social confidence, I understand how navigating real life conversations in today's digital age can feel overwhelming. Remember, you're not navigating this all alone! I have helped so many people just like you who find conversation and socializing exhausting! So whether you are an introvert, feeling rusty talking with people or have some social anxiety, you can learn how to be a master conversationalist and socialize with ease. But it is hard doing this on your own or knowing what to do.

That is why I developed this workshop to elevate your conversational skills to new heights, regardless of your starting point with the support of my coaching and a community of men and women just like you. In an engaging 60-minute session, I'll share with you my proven strategies for engaging in meaningful conversations that can lead to real connections and dates.

We'll dive into practical, fun, and genuine ways to interact, making every conversation an opportunity for a deeper and flirtier connection!

You got this and hope to see you in the zoom room!



Approaching People in Real Life Can Feel Intimidating

It's a Challenge You Can Definitely Overcome

Hey there, Future Confident Connector,

As an experienced dating and confidence coach, I totally get that diving into IRL dating can seem daunting. Hey, you're not alone. Everyone's social journey is unique, and that’s okay.

This workshop is here to skyrocket your dating confidence, no matter where you're starting from. In a dynamic 60-minute session, I will teach you how to meet people in the world with my secret formula that will amp up your social life.

I've guided countless individuals to transform their social lives. Now, it's your turn. Let’s jump into real, joyful, and authentic interactions.Let’s start this adventure together!


Tired of feeling lost in the crowd or unsure how to spark a connection? It's time for a change! 

Join us at our LIVE workshop "Conversation Hacks That Convert to Dates" to master the art of engaging dialogue and create meaningful connections face-to-face (or online.) Turn every interaction into an opportunity for something more. Let's bring excitement back into meeting new people!

Conversation Magic!

Unlock The Secrets To Confident Chats that Lead to Dates

Struggling to turn chats into dates? It's time to change the game! Join us for an engaging workshop focused on elevating your dating conversations to the next level.


Step into our LIVE transformative session!

This is your opportunity to learn the skills and master the art of engaging, meaningful conversation.

I'm here to equip you with the insights and strategies to turn small talk into big connections and DATES! Let's breathe new life into your dating conversations and make every interaction count!


How To Master the Art of Engaging Conversations to learn these important hacks:

Navigating Awkward Silences: Turn awkward silences into opportunities to deepen the connection with strategic questions and topics.

Expressing Vulnerability: Find out how to express vulnerability in a way that is attractive and builds trust, without oversharing or coming off as needy.

Closing with Confidence: Master the art of closing the conversation in a way that leaves them wanting more, including asking for a date with confidence and tact.

First Impressions That Last: Learn the secrets to making unforgettable first impressions that spark interest and attraction from the moment you say hello.

Master the Art of Flirty Conversations: Discover how to engage in flirty conversations that create chemistry when talking with potential dates. Turn casual chats into captivating connections without feeling awkward or out of place.

The Power of Active Listening: Enhance your listening skills to create a deeper connection and show genuine interest in your date.

Keeping Conversations Flowing: Learn strategies to keep conversations flowing smoothly, avoiding dead-ends and fostering a sense of ease and comfort.

Escalating the Interaction: Learn how to subtly escalate the interaction from friendly banter to romantic interest, identifying the right moment to make your move.

Conversation Starters That Work: Get equipped with proven conversation starters that break the ice and set the stage for engaging exchanges.

Read and Use Body Language: Uncover how to use your body language effectively during your interactions so that you are sending and reading signals that create attraction.

Ready to learn the skills to turn your conversations into engaging moments that lead to great dates?



Unlock the secrets to amplifying your charm and charisma in every interaction. Whether you're mingling at a party, networking for business, or simply engaging in day-to-day conversations, these strategies will ensure you're always leaving a memorable impression. 

This is your chance to shine brighter in all areas of life, not just in the dating scene.

Sign up for the co-ed and interactive workshop now!



What People Are Saying

Because of this workshop, I feel a lot lighter about dating. It doesn’t need to be anything but FUN. I realized I had this seriousness about dating, and it was not fun, WHY!!? That just hit on a very deep level.


Kimmy has made me feel much more confident about myself and she brought out the attractiveness nature with myself. I feel much more sexier now and I finally feel like women are attracted to me! It is a great feeling!


Because of this workshop I have learned I can flirt and it doesn’t mean I have to marry the person. I can speak in a feelings way that connects me to the person, not just the facts.”


My in box is full of “likes” and chats. I have good choices across what I think is my wheel house for the first time! None of the other money I spent paid off like the extreme value I got from you and your classes. Even ex’s are hitting me up. This would just be a train wreck without your help


Are you ready to...?

Spark connections wherever you go and effortlessly have fun in those conversations.

Practice the learnable skills to become a master at engaging conversations that bring people into your world.

Own your confidence, attractiveness, and enthusiasm when talking with others.

Overcome past challenges and open up to the joys of true connections and dating.

Shift your mindset and enhance your skills with strategies that make socializing a success, no matter your age!

Stop letting your introversion paralyze you!

MEET YOUR  Dating Coach

I’m Kimmy Seltzer, your dating, love, and makeover expert! With a vast of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, I have helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using my unique “confidence makeover” process and outside-in approach.

I implement targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people’s lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction. I've traveled the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences.

I'm on a mission to show people how to conquer their fears so they can be seen, be valued, and be truly confident in dating, style, and life.

This is your time for flirting, fun and passion and I'm here to help you get there!


And Turn Every Chat into a Potential Date

This engaging, co-ed workshop is your gateway to becoming a magnet for meaningful connections. Get ready to revolutionize your social and dating life!


DISCLAIMER: The results and stories shared in this training are not guaranteed. 
However, I’m going to show you the steps to reach your goals faster than you could on your own.

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