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Do you often hear feedback from your dates that “you’re a nice girl, but…”? Are your friends and family baffled as to why you’re still single? Or, is there a special guy who has your heart, but he sees you as just a good friend and nothing more? As a modern woman in the dating world, one of the key skills you must master is the ability to get out of the friend zone. Here are four sure-fire ways to get men to see you as a romantic love interest and not just another pal:

1. Dress the part.

Men like to date women who look like women, so if you really want that guy to see you as more than a friend or coworker, you need to dress the part! Incorporate more curve-hugging dresses, feminine skirts, and sexy heels into your wardrobe, and I guarantee the men in your life will start to see you in a whole new light.

2. Have sexy conversation.

Avoid getting placed in the friend zone by mastering the art of sexy conversation. Friends talk about the weather, sports, and politics, so steer clear of those topics. Instead, share things about yourself that reveal more of who you are as a woman. Also, don’t reveal your whole life story with a guy you’re interested in. Always leave him wanting more.

3. Paint a picture with your words.

Use your words to create an image of the life the two of you could create together. For example, tell him about the sexy vacation spots you’d love to visit, and the exotic experiences you’d like to explore. This will get him thinking about exploring these places with you, as a romantic partner.

4. Create sensuality with your clothes

Guys LOVE soft clothes, so wear lots of silk, cotton, and suede to invite him to touch you. Also, wear sexy lingerie whenever you’re going to see him. Even though he won’t see it, just knowing you have it on will make YOU feel and act more sensual in his presence.

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