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Attract Love with Confidence Through Coaching, Styling & Strategy
Dating doesn’t have to be frustrating. I help smart, successful people break old patterns, boost confidence, and find real connection,
by transforming your mindset, style, and dating approach.
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Choose Your Path to Confidence & Love
You Feel Like You Should Love Your Life, But...
You’ve worked your butt off to get to where you are professionally, and on paper, your career and life look good. So why doesn’t “success” feel like you thought it would?
You’re ready to learn and incorporate the proven strategies to attract the right person to share your success with AND do so in a way that feels authentic to the unique person you are.
You Need Support
You’re exhausted by the dating scene or even the idea of dating! You want to create love but any thoughts of going out and “dating” are met with a flood
of doubt.
You’re looking for guidance, accountability, and encouragement from a trusted coach and a community of like-minded people who know exactly what you’re going through.
You Need to Send the Right First Impression
You want to flirt, be romanced, and actually enjoy the process of dating. Deep down you know that if you were equipped with the right tools, dating could actually be fun!
You’re looking for tangible strategies and a safe practicing environment to help you figure out (and enjoy) this whole flirting and dating thing.
Not sure which is right for you?
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What Clients are saying
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Working with Kimmy changed everything for me. I went from feeling invisible to feeling confident on dates—now I’m in the best relationship of my life!
Michael Harris
Creative Director
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The styling session was a game-changer. I had no idea my clothes were affecting my dating confidence. I feel like a new person!
Jenna Davies
Designer
Hey I'm Kimmy
I’m your dating, love, and makeover expert!
I’m an ex-therapist turned dating strategist, image consultant, podcast host, author, and nationally recognized speaker.
With passion, first-hand experience, tough love, and lots and lots of resilience, I’ve found my purpose guiding high achievers to build explosive confidence and create a gateway to love, prosperity, and ultimately happiness. After over a decade impacting thousands of lives with my signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient, I’ve discovered one undeniable truth: you can love yourself… and make other people do the same!
Today, I'm a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. I’m also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen,
Let’s get started on your journey to Confidence & Love!
Start with my free quiz and discover your dating confidence type!
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast helps you build confidence, make connections, and find love. Each week, Kimmy Seltzer and experts share strategies to boost confidence, avoid dating pitfalls, and create lasting love.
Kim’s lighthearted, practical approach makes tough topics fun and relatable—like chatting with a brilliant therapist over wine.
Join the Charisma Quotient community and break free from bad dating habits to build the love you deserve!
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CONFIDENCE THERAPIST
DATING STRATEGIST
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