“Flirting is instinctive and deeply ingrained in us through evolution. Almost all animals from birds to fish and even fruit flies know how to flirt. However, the rise in popularity of Internet dating is a game changer, and as traditional gender roles continue to evolve so do traditional flirting norms. A deeper understanding of modern flirting etiquette and complex unwritten rules is a powerful weapon when trying to attract a partner.”


Above is an excerpt from an article I was interviewed for by Marilyn Wilkinson on EliteSingles Magazine, titled: “How to Flirt: Psychological Secrets of Attraction“. We discussed how to use your body language to do the talking, how to strike up a conversation, and how you can flirt online. Head over to the article to learn these tips for successful flirting!

About the Author Kimmy Seltzer

For over a decade, I worked as a licensed therapist helping people grow from the inside out. But after going through my own life-altering divorce, I realized something was missing.

At my lowest point, I felt stuck, invisible, and disconnected from myself—until a simple moment changed everything. Trying on a bold red dress pushed me out of my comfort zone and shifted how I saw myself. That “red dress moment” showed me that confidence doesn’t always start within—it can start with how you show up.

Today, I help men and women build confidence from the outside in. Through my Charisma Quotient approach, I combine style, emotional intelligence, and social skills to help people create real attraction, connection, and lasting change.

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