Meet  Kimmy

I’m Kimmy Seltzer, your dating, love, and makeover expert! With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, I have helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using my unique “confidence makeover” process and outside-in approach.


I implement targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people’s lives using my signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction. I’ve traveled the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at TEDx, National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal and UCLA and media appearances in Tamron Hall Show, ABC News, Fox News, Daily Blast Live. I’m also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. You can also listen to my podcast, The Charisma Quotient and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox.


I’m on a mission to show people how to conquer their fears so they can be seen, be valued, and be truly confident in dating, style, and life.


This is your time for flirting, fun and passion and I’m here to help you get there!

Meet  Kimmy

I’m Kimmy Seltzer, your dating, love, and makeover expert! With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, I have helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using my unique “confidence makeover” process and outside-in approach.


I implement targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people’s lives using my signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction. I’ve traveled the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at TEDx, National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal and UCLA and media appearances in Tamron Hall Show, ABC News, Fox News, Daily Blast Live. I’m also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. You can also listen to my podcast, The Charisma Quotient and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox.


I’m on a mission to show people how to conquer their fears so they can be seen, be valued, and be truly confident in dating, style, and life.


This is your time for flirting, fun and passion and I’m here to help you get there!

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What Clients are Saying About  Kimmy


"I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now and have started to think about marriage. She is awesome and the pacing was very good at the start of the relationship. It was different from my other relationships. Thanks again for all of your help Kimmy! Here is the result of our work together!"

~ Stephen

"Working with Kim was really working on my confidence and the way she did that was beautiful. In the beginning I thought it was my “picker” but I soon realized that it wasn’t about the women… it was all about me. If I hadn’t embraced who I was and continued to hide who I was, I never would have met the woman I love today. Thank you Kimmy!"

~ Vince

"I continue to grow and evolve. I can remember vividly during our intensive you mirroring me in conversation. What an aha moment! It has lead me to a much deeper connection and has expanded my world exponentially... much appreciated! I have numerous friendships with women now and I am learning how to be present with them. And I now have someone special in my life! Keep being the inspiring woman that you are. I have so enjoyed your company and guidance!"

~ Paul

What Clients are Saying About  Kimmy


"I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now and have started to think about marriage. She is awesome and the pacing was very good at the start of the relationship. It was different from my other relationships. Thanks again for all of your help Kimmy! Here is the result of our work together!"

~ Stephen

"Working with Kim was really working on my confidence and the way she did that was beautiful. In the beginning I thought it was my “picker” but I soon realized that it wasn’t about the women… it was all about me. If I hadn’t embraced who I was and continued to hide who I was, I never would have met the woman I love today. Thank you Kimmy!"

~ Vince

"I continue to grow and evolve. I can remember vividly during our intensive you mirroring me in conversation. What an aha moment! It has lead me to a much deeper connection and has expanded my world exponentially... much appreciated! I have numerous friendships with women now and I am learning how to be present with them. And I now have someone special in my life! Keep being the inspiring woman that you are. I have so enjoyed your company and guidance!"

~ Paul

Transformations at Kimmy's Co-ed Dating Retreats

“Kimmy has made me feel much more confident about myself and she brought out the sexy Sanch" - Sanch

“Kimmy has made me feel much more confident about myself and I finally feel like women are attracted to me! It is a great feeling!” - Peter

“I started learning how a woman feels when I do certain things as a man.” - Marcus

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