Confidence Therapist,
Dating Strategist & Image Expert

Kimmy Seltzer is an ex-therapist turned dating strategist, image consultant, podcast host, author, and nationally recognized speaker.

For over a decade Kimmy has been impacting thousands of lives with her signature dating formula, The Charisma Quotient. Kimmy has discovered one undeniable truth...
"you can love yourself…and make other people do the same!"

With passion, first-hand experience, tough love, and lots of resilience, Kimmy found purpose in guiding high achievers to build explosive confidence to create a gateway to love, prosperity, and ultimately happiness.

Today, Kimmy Seltzer is a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA, and iDate. She’s also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, live dating show The Great Love Debate among a myriad of other publications.

She is also the host of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, designed to share strategies to build confidence, avoid common dating pitfalls, and find lasting love.

She’s on a mission to show people how to conquer their fears so they can be seen, be valued, and be truly confident in dating, style, and life.

TEDx

How Marketing Yourself Attracts Love

Marketing yourself can attract the love you want. With vast knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, Kimmy has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. 

Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people’s lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe, and flirting and how it impacts attraction.

Kimmy's Signature Keynote Topics

  • Build Your Confidence And Charisma: Attract The Career, Success & Money You Deserve.
  • The Love Makeover: The Magic Formula for How To Create Attraction & Find Love.
  • The Power of Presentation: Building Your Confidence From The Outside In.
  • How Your Personal Brand Impacts Leadership.
  • How To Create A Great First Impression.
  • Achieve ROI With A Killer Image.

Tamron Hall Show - November 2023

ABC7 Los Angeles - February 2024


ABC7 Los Angeles - November 2023

Daily Blast

6 ABC Philadelphia

Fox 11 L.A. - Looking for love in the pandemic.

Spectrum News 1

The CW San Diego 

WAFB Channel 9

Sway TV

The Romance TV

Good Morning LaLa Land

Spectrum News 1 LA
Experts Give Tips on New Age Dating

Dating IRL

Dating Re - imagined

Hybrid 6-week online class + live retreat.

Learn how to confidently navigate the dating world, attract the right partners, AND create irresistible chemistry that people can’t ignore without wasting any more time, energy, or money on temporary fixes that don’t get you results in your love life!

Ask Kimmy

  • What is possible when you build confidence from the outside, in?
  • When is the right time to prioritize dating?
  • How do I have it all? In relationships, career, style, and life?
  • How do I connect with the right people?
  • How do I create a great first impression?
  • How do I start over and create the life I want in my second or third act?
  • Is technology ruining dating?

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