Elevate Your Social, Style, and Emotional IQ

This LIVE experience is designed to help dynamic women cultivate irresistible dating skills, create magnetic sexiness, and radically increase their dating confidence, inside and out. Are you in?!

ONLINE CLASS | JUNE 8 - JULY  13, 2022


An intimate and life-changing experience is designed

for women, by women!

Spark Your Sexy LIVE is the most action-oriented event + supportive community for successful women who have tons of assets working for them but need a little help with their dating life.

During this hands-on retreat, you’ll learn alongside women who share your secret desire for infusing fun, passion, sensuality, and flirtation into their dating lives. Get ready for innovative dating ideas, stylish fashion tips, unique shopping opportunities, inspired collaboration, and the hard-to-articulate magic that happens when like-minded people get in the same room.

Are you ready for the game-changing breakthrough that surfaces when an intimate community of like-minded, like-motivated women grow together?

This unique event gives you the information and implementation opportunities that can only be experienced live, in person, with a community that understands you and where your secret dating fantasies.

Within this room of committed, driven and powerful entrepreneurs, you’ll get clarity on how to date in a way that feels like you, how to attract the partners you want, and how to look and feel more attractive than ever before!

You'll Receive..

  • Daily hot seat coaching and workshops led by Kimmy Seltzer
  • Practice mock-dating opportunities to implement everything you’ve learned with qualified men.
  • Feedback on your dating habits
  • Catered healthy meals
  • Learning opportunities to ask questions that get you out of ideation and into action.
  • Personal development opportunities to support the dating strategies you learn.
  • Professional photo shoot make you feel hot and use in your dating profiles.
  • In-person connections with other single women (and girlfriends) who know exactly what you’re going through.

“A really great way to improve your life.”

“I highly recommend this program. It is VERY transformative. Kim has a great way of figuring out what spots you might be blind to or need a little tweaking. It’s just a really great way to improve your life.”

PLUS: You’ll receive training and support via an online class, 6-WEEKS BEFORE the LIVE event begins.

Over the course of this virtual 6-week class, you’ll be guided through the key pillars of dating with confidence so you can conquer your dating fears, fall in love with YOU, step into your sexiness, and even land the right date for YOU!

At the conclusion of this program, you’ll have had the opportunity to practice implementing what you’ve learned with your fellow co-ed classmates in our LIVE event.

  • 6 live group coaching sessions
  • Unlimited Email Access to answer any and all of your questions
  • Recordings of each session
  • Private Facebook Group Access for even more support.


You Want to Enjoy the Dating Process
Deep down you know that if you were equipped with the right tools, dating could actually be fun! You’re looking for tangible strategies and a safe practice environment to help you figure out (and enjoy) this whole flirting and dating thing.

You Need Support.
You’re exhausted by the dating scene or even the idea of dating! You want to create love but any thoughts of going out and “dating” are met with a flood of doubt. You’re looking for guidance, accountability, and encouragement from a trusted coach and a group of girlfriends who GET you.

You don’t know how to put yourself out there.
You’re curious about entering or re-entering the world of dating, especially after COVID, but you’re not quite sure where to begin. You’re looking for answers on how to break through dating roadblocks so you can get out of overthinking mode and jump into action!

You’re tired of feeling alone.
You’re well aware that the journey to finding love isn’t always easy. Which is why you’re craving the support of a mentor and co-ed community who genuinely care about you, guide your growth, and help you remember your sexiness, strength, and appeal… And you’re DYING to be with people live and in-person, again!

You’re frustrated with the lack of results.
Let’s face it: there’s only so much talk therapy you can do! You’ve invested the hours, the vulnerability, and the money, but no matter how hard you try you aren’t seeing lasting results. Talk about frustrating.

You want to get into the same room with fellow single people looking for love.
No one around you understands what you’re going through or what you really want to accomplish and you feel like you’re on your own. You want to get into a room with people who get YOU.

The truth is that you can't create the love you want without the right support, strategies, and systems to make dating delicious, instead of a drag!


Feeling Equipped and Empowered at any moment.
You know you have all the tools, power, and dating techniques in your back pocket whenever you need them. All you have to do is tap in.

Breaking up with stressful “throw spaghetti at the wall” fixes, and pursuing lasting solutions.
You’re done trying anything and everything, even when it feels totally out of character. You now have the skillset to date, flirt, and play without the anxiety, annoyance, or awkwardness.

Seeing results, fast (like yesterday).
You’re able to see results fast! From physical chemistry to emotional connection, and beyond, you’re able to confidently date and flirt, even when you weren’t expecting it.

You’re attracting men you’re actually interested in– and it feels SO good.
You can clearly see the difference between where you were and where you are now, and it feels incredible! You’re so happy you gave yourself the gift of prioritizing your love life.

You have a proven system available to you.
It’s hard to visualize what you can’t see. But now that you have the resources, tools, and framework to make dating less scary, there’s nothing standing in your way.

Looking And Feeling HOT.
As you learn, you implement the tools in real-time…and people are noticing! Not only are you helping build your irresistible confidence, but you’re turning more heads and getting more dates. As you practice putting yourself out there, men see you, and it feels fantastic.

ALL this and more are available to you, during Spark Your  Sexy LIVE

Come hang with me in sunny Orange County and you'll get:

You'll Get...

• Guided Shopping Experiences
• Collaboration Opportunities
• Nightly Events
• A Curated Swag Bag
• Opportunity for Live Coaching + Workshopping
• Expert Speaker Delivering Hard Strategy
• Mock Dates Opportunities
• Mock date feedback uniquely tailored to you.


Join us at

 Laguna Cliffs Marriott Resort & Spa

The LIVE Event portion of Spark Your Sexy LIVE is taking place at the vibrant Orange County hotel, Laguna Cliffs Marriott Resort & Spa

All sessions, workshops, parties + meetups will be taking place at Laguna Cliffs Marriott Resort & Spa, unless otherwise specified. 

Meet your fellow attendees poolside, at the restaurants, or next to the fire pits on the patio.

More room rate details available upon request.

Does Spark Your Sexy LIVE sound like the empowering, informative, and action-oriented Solution you’ve been searching for?

I’d love to connect with you to hear more about you and your dating dream!

An Experience

You'll Never Forget...


I’m Kimmy Seltzer, your dating, love, and makeover expert!

I’m an ex-therapist turned dating strategist, image consultant, podcast host, author, and nationally recognized speaker.

With passion, first-hand experience, tough love, and lots and lots of resilience, I’ve found my purpose in guiding high achievers to build explosive confidence and create a gateway to love, prosperity, and ultimately happiness. After over a decade of impacting thousands of lives with my signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient, I’ve discovered one undeniable truth: you can love yourself… and make other people do the same!

Today, I'm a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA, and iDate. I’m also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, live dating show The Great Love Debate among a myriad of other publications.

I’m on a mission to show you exactly how to conquer your fears so you can be seen, be valued, and be truly confident.

This is your time for love. This is your time for passion. This is your journey. And I’m here to help!


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DISCLAIMER: The results and stories shared in this training are not guaranteed. 
However, I’m going to show you the steps to reach your goals faster than you could on your own.

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