Kimmy Seltzer
Stop Hating Dating™
A Step-by-Step Dating Confidence & Action Program
Stop Overthinking. Stop Swiping Aimlessly. Start Enjoying Dating Again.
Get the coaching, tools, practice and support you need to feel confident, meet amazing people, and create the love life you actually want with — Kimmy by your side.
Coaching
Live Workshops
Weekly Challenges
Speed Dating
Supportive Community
Kimmy Seltzer
Stop Hating Dating™
A Step-by-Step Dating
Confidence & Action Program
Stop Overthinking. Stop Swiping Aimlessly. Start Enjoying Dating Again.
Get the coaching, tools, practice and support you need to feel confident, meet amazing people, and create the love life you actually want with — Kimmy by your side.
TIRED OF THE SAME DATING CYCLE?
Dating can feel exhausting.
You're on the apps, having the same conversations, going on lackluster dates, or maybe you've taken a break altogether. You know you want a relationship — but dating just feels confusing, overwhelming, and honestly... not fun.
TIRED OF THE SAME DATING CYCLE?
Dating can feel exhausting.
You're on the apps, having the same conversations, going on lackluster dates, or maybe you've taken a break altogether. You know you want a relationship — but dating just feels confusing, overwhelming, and honestly... not fun.
A BETTER WAY TO DATE
A Step-by-Step Path to Real Results
Stop Hating Dating™ gives you a proven system, hands-on practice, and ongoing support so you can build confidence, enjoy the process, and attract the right people.
1. STRATEGY
Get clear on your goals and personalized plan with Kimmy.
2. LEARN
Build the skills and mindset you need to date confidently.
3. PRACTICE
Take action with weekly challenges, in real life (not just more advice.)
4. GET FEEDBACK
Join virtual speed dating and live events to practice and grow.
5. STAY ACCOUNTABLE
Be part of a supportive community to keep your momentum going.
A BETTER WAY TO DATE
A Step-by-Step Path to Real Results
Stop Hating Dating™ gives you a proven system, hands-on practice, and ongoing support so you can build confidence, enjoy the process, and attract the right people.
1. STRATEGY
Get clear on your goals and personalized plan with Kimmy.
2. LEARN
Build the skills and mindset you need to date confidently.
3. PRACTICE
Take action with weekly challenges, in real life (not just more advice.)
4. GET FEEDBACK
Join virtual speed dating and live events to practice and grow.
5. STAY ACCOUNTABLE
Be part of a supportive community to keep your momentum going.
HERE'S WHAT'S INCLUDED
Everything You Need to Stop Hating Dating and Start Loving It
Private Dating Strategy Session with Kimmy
Start with a private coaching session
where you'll identify your biggest dating challenges, uncover blind spots, and create a personalized action plan. You'll walk away with clarity, direction, and a roadmap for exactly what to focus on next.
Weekly Dating Challenges Delivered to Your Phone
Get engaging text-based challenges, prompts, exercises, and action steps designed to help you practice dating
skills in real life. These bite-sized assignments make it easy to take action consistently without feeling overwhelmed.
Monthly Live Workshops & Trainings
Join Kimmy for live, co-ed interactive coaching workshops designed to help you master every stage of dating and attraction.
Virtual Speed Dating Events with Feedback
Put your skills into practice with fun, virtual speed dating events. You'll meet like-minded singles, practice real conversations, and get expert feedback to help you keep improving.
Stop Hating Dating™ Community
Dating is easier — and way more fun — when you're not doing it alone. Connect with a community of like-minded singles who are committed to growth, support, accountability and finding meaningful connections.
HERE'S WHAT'S INCLUDED
Everything You Need to Stop Hating Dating and Start Loving It
Private Dating Strategy Session with Kimmy
Start with a private coaching session where you'll identify your biggest dating challenges, uncover blind spots, and create a personalized action plan. You'll walk away with clarity, direction, and a roadmap for exactly what to focus on next.
Weekly Dating Challenges Delivered to Your Phone
Get engaging text-based challenges, prompts, exercises, and action steps designed to help you practice dating
skills in real life. These bite-sized assignments make it easy to take action consistently without feeling overwhelmed.
Monthly Live Workshops & Trainings
Join Kimmy for live, co-ed interactive coaching workshops designed to help you master every stage of dating and attraction.
Virtual Speed Dating Events with Feedback
Put your skills into practice with fun, virtual speed dating events. You'll meet like-minded singles, practice real conversations, and get expert feedback to help you keep improving.
Stop Hating Dating™ Community
Dating is easier — and way more fun — when you're not doing it alone. Connect with a community of like-minded singles who are committed to growth, support, accountability and finding meaningful connections.
THIS PROGRAM IS PERFECT FOR YOU IF...
6 MONTHS TO CHANGE THE WAY YOU DATE
Only $997
You'll have Kimmy's coaching, a personalized strategy, live training, weekly challenges, real-world practice, feedback, speed dating experiences, accountability and a community supporting you as you put it all into action.
6 months of coaching, practice, accountability & support.
6 MONTHS TO CHANGE THE WAY YOU DATE
Only $997
You'll have Kimmy's coaching, a personalized strategy, live training, weekly challenges, real-world practice, feedback, speed dating experiences, accountability and a community supporting you as you put it all into action.
6 months of coaching, practice, accountability & support.
Meet Your Coach
Kimmy Seltzer
Confidence Therapist | Dating Strategist | Image Expert
Kimmy Seltzer is a top dating coach, matchmaker and the host of The Charisma Quotient podcast. She's helped thousands of singles around the world build confidence, master the modern dating scene and create lasting, meaningful relationships. Her approach is real, refreshing and practical — no fluff, just real tools and support to help you get the results you want.
Meet Your Coach
Kimmy Seltzer
Confidence Therapist | Dating Strategist | Image Expert
Kimmy Seltzer is a top dating coach, matchmaker and the host of The Charisma Quotient podcast. She's helped thousands of singles around the world build confidence, master the modern dating scene and create lasting, meaningful relationships. Her approach is real, refreshing and practical — no fluff, just real tools and support to help you get the results you want.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
No. Stop Hating Dating™ is designed for singles who want to become more confident and effective daters. Several experiences, including workshops and virtual speed dating, are designed to be co-ed.
You’ll have 6 full months of access to the Stop Hating Dating™ program, giving you plenty of time to learn, practice, and put your new dating skills into action. Throughout those six months, you’ll have access to the program resources, coaching experiences, challenges, and community support designed to help you build real confidence and lasting momentum.
No worries! A replay is included and sent out after every live workshop, so you can watch it on your own time. While we’d love to have you join us live whenever you can, you’ll never have to miss out on the training just because your schedule gets in the way.
It’s both! You’ll start with a private 1:1 Dating Strategy Session with Kimmy to identify your unique challenges, goals and next steps. From there, you’ll continue your journey through live group workshops, weekly dating challenges, virtual speed dating experiences, accountability, and the Stop Hating Dating™ Community.
No. The program includes strategies for both online and real-life dating, with a strong emphasis on creating more opportunities to meet and connect with people IRL.
You don’t need to feel confident before you begin—that’s what we’ll work on together. Whether you’re returning to dating after a long break or feel nervous starting conversations, your private strategy session helps you identify where to start. Weekly challenges give you manageable ways to practice, while workshops and community support help you build confidence along the way.
You get to put the skills into practice—not just listen to a presentation. Kimmy’s live, co-ed workshops combine training with interactive exercises and opportunities to ask questions. You can explore flirting, conversation, attraction, and communication with other singles, with coaching and feedback to help you apply what you learn.
Singles who are ready to improve how they date, build confidence and take meaningful action toward connection and relationships.
YOU DESERVE A DATING LIFE THAT FEELS GOOD
Stop Hating Dating™
Get the tools, practice, support and community to stop overthinking dating and start enjoying the journey again.