The Dame
You are a strong female knight wearing armor so thick that a man can't even make a dent. You tend to have little to no body signals that you are available or open to talking to a man. Usually you enter into room with tunnel vision and have no awareness that men are interested you.
Typical Characteristics
- You tend to look at and talk to just your girlfriends in a public place or social setting.
- You would never make direct eye contact or smile at a man when out and about.
- There is stiffness to your body language, which tends to be closed off and reserved.
- You often look down and walk fast.
- If given a choice of sitting at the bar or a small table in the corner of a restaurant, you pick the small table.
- You have the belief that it’s not polite to talk with someone unless they initiate conversation. You feel that most people are busy and don’t want to be bothered.
Your Secret Weapons
- It’s time to wake up, smell the roses and slow down! It's time to take off the armor you have been wearing and allow the attention and energy of others into your world.
- You need to turn your cab light on and start sending smoke signals to men that you are available and open to talking. Smile, laugh and make eye contact with men every time you walk into a room. It’s time to take off the blinders and take notice who is looking at you.
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